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Divorce frequently asked questionsEverybody should use divorce mediation; it's a question of whether you canor not. Some people (i.e. one spouse in the divorcing couple) use divorce mediation just to gather information to use against the other party later. Or if there's a lack of trust, your spouse may use it to get information to use against you later. So what you may want to do first is to visit a divorce attorney and find out what you need to do, how you need to do it, and whether it would work for your situation after you explain it, and then make a decision. You have to remember that whenever you see a divorce attorney, it's confidential and private. They can't repeat what you've said to anybody else, so don't worry about that. But you have to tell them the makeup of the type of divorce lawyer. Some attorneys have a sixth sense if they've been practicing for a long time: if you tell them a little bit about the person, they have a good idea of what that person's like. And if divorce mediation will work, that's the first thing they should try.It shouldn't affect your divorce if you date other people. As a practicality, we have irreconcilable differences as a reason for dissolution in California divorce law, and of course the other reason is incurable insanity. However, as a practical matter, it can tend to affect your divorce if the other person feels spurned or jealous, or gets emotionally upset to the point that they want to punish you. So what you might want to do is keep a relationship, if you have one, very close to the vest until such time as you work out either a settlement or finish your divorce case in its entirety.Collaborative Divorce is a really interesting concept. Basically, both parties have a divorce attorney, and often, both parties have a coach. If there are children, there's a therapist for them. And if there's a business that might be owned by one or both parties, there could be a forensic CPA to value the business, help you with the assets of the business etc., and even to divide the business. All of this works together. Who should? For anybody that can afford to use collaborative law, it would be a great thing to do. But it also has a lot of retainers and costs attributable to it. So you have to decide if it's right for you.If you have children, keep a journal of the timeshare -- and perhaps also statements the kids are making if it's going to be an issue of someone going to brainwash the children or anything of that nature. Also keep a journal of how often you have the children or how often your spouse has the children. As far as other tips: start making copies of all of the documents, even if you think they may not be that important: all the bank statements, all the credit-card statements, loan statements, mortgage statements, property tax, life insurance, etc. All of that becomes important. Anything you think that might be an asset, copy it. Even if you think it's not worthy of it, copy it, because you never know -- it might be important.Number one, you don't need to ask for a divorce in the state of California. If someone wants a divorce, they get it. But if that does happen to you, I would suggest that you start collecting and copying all bank statements, copies of insurance, all statements regarding any bills due, mortgages, copy deeds: anything that you might not even think is important, copy it. If it's not important, that's fine, but at least you've got it. If you are the person that pays the bills, you've probably got it anyway. But you can't take the risk that it might disappear. So copy everything, move it to someplace safe, call a divorce attorney, and make an appointment. Let's say you're not sure you want the divorce: that's fine, just get your information. It's like preventive medicine -- there's preventive law. Just have your information so that you feel safe and comfortable.
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